Skip to main content

Friendship Private Limited

Can you imagine a Life with no Social Being? Its almost impossible. You are practically socialising since the day you were born when your parents did the whole baby talk with you. From that day onwards we come across PEOPLE like ourselves, yet different. I believe everyone you meet leaves some kind of impression on you and vice-versa. And the summary of these impressions forms an Experience with which we grow up. Its a serious thought. A friend very close to me once said, that we are an average of the six people we spend the most time with. If I were you, at this moment, I would be thinking of who those 6 people were. Are you with me?
      Influence. Such a strong word. If you look back into your past and retrospect, you will find certain experiences that taught you or changed you, for the better or worse ofcourse. I remember my Parents being worried when I was in School, wanting to know who my friends were. Why? Because my character reflected my company to a great extent. And as I grew mature and understanding towards my surroundings I realised the Importance of having the Right People around me. No surprises that a point came where my Parents were more appreciative of my friends (ofcourse everyone has their share of flaws as well).
         Coming to the point, that, you should choose your friends wisely. Especially the six people you spend the most time with. Would you want to be like someone who has bad habits, no ambition and disrespects life's offerings OR Would you want to be Positive, Passionate and Proud of the person you are? Think about it. I look at all the successful people today that I read about and I find one such characteristic common, and that is Knowing who your real Friends are? Do they uplift you or do they provoke you? Are they selfish or self-less? Are they friends? or mere Acquaintances?.
          Small Things Make Big Differences. Everything beings with a Thought. Hope I could help lay down a platform to think from.

P.S.- Friendship is not being selfish. Its recognising who has his hand around you, and who doesnt.

God Bless.

Love All,...................Marry One ! (Haha)

To Friendship !

      

Comments

  1. Venu BaglaApril 27, 2010 at 12:17 PM

    amazing....................never knew this side of yours............. a really interesting article which makes you to ask yourself many questions fr which d answers are hidden within yourself............

    ReplyDelete
  2. Ashish PorwalApril 28, 2010 at 2:46 PM

    Buddy nice article.. Got a little lost in the middle but the subject was good and more importantly the matter was relevant.

    Yep finally have something to think abt after this post.

    The best part of the article was : Friendship is not being selfish. Its recognising who has his hand around you, and who doesnt.

    Thats an apt closing line 4 the article.. Nice start.

    Looking forward to your next post..

    ReplyDelete
  3. NakulApril 29, 2010 at 6:59 PM

    hey nice 1 ya....
    never thot u wud b such a gud bloggr...
    keeep postin n feedin us wid such nice articles...

    ReplyDelete
  4. Abhi...April 29, 2010 at 9:35 PM

    Bravo mate! Im a fan :)

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Think Again…

Firstly, I appreciate you taking out your precious time to read my very first blog. It has always been a Dream to write my thoughts and share them with everyone. Finally after few years of procrastination , here it is. if your wondering,.. why “Think Again”, …. I’ll explain.. But first you need to ask yourself one question.. Do you BELIEVE that you can be, do or have anything you want in Life ?.. I know it’s a heavy question for starters, but an important life-altering one. When we are young ,not only are we innocent and playful,but were also Believers… Ask a 5 year old his dreams,, and you’ll automatically know where his Beliefs lie.. am I right or am I right?.. Children are born innocent unaffected by the reality checks of Life… They smile like they don’t understand frowning,, play like the world is their playground and dance like they’ve won “Who wants to be a MIllionnaire”…. Well.. Guess what,..... WE come from the same origin!..... but... whats changed?... If your with me, nod you...
13 comments
Read more

Family- Your Root to Unconditional Love & More

What comes to your mind, when I say the word Family? Love ? Upbringing? Life? or it could unfortunately be the opposite for some as well. Well whatever it is, its really important to acknowledge what lies behind this one magnificent word. Family- Your reason to exist. Agree? No options there. Well I've realised over a period of time the importance of mine. Whether your the only child like me or whether you have siblings, it doesnt really make much difference in how one should respect his parents. Whatever happens in Life, your parents, being your core family will always be around. My father infact says, that you cannot trust anyone as much as you can trust your family. The phrase, " Blood is Thicker than Water" ring a bell ?. Whatever I am today, I am hugely grateful to them for supporting me and giving me the upbringing I have. Everyone would have their own perspectives here. Respect that. From the time you learnt how to walk to being fed your first cerelac. The love ...
8 comments
Read more

Autograph Please ?

Have you ever tried looking at your Life from a third person's perspective. Or let me rephrase, have you looked at your Life like you are watching a Movie?. Take a moment to first grasp the idea of watching YOUR Movie. Newly suggested thoughts take a while to digest. Now that your visualise your life as a Movie, the million dollar question is, Who are YOU in the Movie ? Hold on to that thought. Now generally when you want to go see a Movie, you expect something out of it whether its comedy, romance, action or thriller your looking for. You want to ENJOY the experience and leave the Cinema with a feel good feeling ! But it takes two to clap and depends on how everyone brings it to the table. In Life, you are the Director, Producer, Script Writer & Lead. What kind of a Movie would you like to watch of YOUR life ? All you got to do is write your Life's Script, direct your Actions based on what you have written and Produce the Results you want to see . You are the Act...
7 comments
Read more