“I don't like myself, I'm crazy about myself”
How often do we say things like this to ourselves. As a matter of fact how often do we even talk to ourselves ? Have you ever tried it or do you laugh at the very thought of it ?
"Talk to myself? !!!, What am I Stupid ? !! "
Confession time - I Talk to myself. Am I stupid ? Noways. I love spending time with MYSELF. Generally, people are always surrounded by others through relationships or circumstances. Whether its Home or Office, you are rarely alone ; even if your a social outcast. So what am I trying to get at here is to ask yourself, how much time do you spend with the one you should love the most, YOURSELF ? Or are you looking for that Love and Approval from someone else ?
Every now and then I take a walk at the Race Course, to consciously spend time with "me". And trust me, not only do you hear your thoughts more clearly but you also have these awesome breakthrough ideas . How can you even expect someone to love your company, if you yourself dont. Being alone is fun. It helps to get to know "YOU" and value what "YOU" are all about. And believe you me, if you genuinely Love "YOU", it won't matter what people say or think of you. I have seen people vulnerable and sensitive towards comments and criticism. Its like giving another person a Remote to CONTROL the way you should feel. I honestly dont even like the IDEA of being CONTROLLED. Dont think you do either.
So what are "YOU" all about. Explore yourself. Self-Discovery is a Road less Travelled, but is also known to be the best Journeys one can take. You might just have a Paradigm Shift for all you know. Life begins and ends with "YOU". There is only one "YOU".
I am Proud to be "ME". Are you?
Go to a Book Store. Get a hot beverage and an uplifting book.
Wear your ipod to the park and admire nature.
Go for a swim. I've personally taken my best decisions in a swimming pool.
Watch a Movie in the cinema by yourself. Its an experience .(Atleast you wont have to share your popcorn)
Drive far away from all the metropolitan hustle.
Meditation is great. Do it and then judge for yourself.
In the immortal words of Oscar Wilde, "“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance"
To "YOU" !