Thursday, September 8, 2011

The Goal is Consitency

Everyone has a goal. Its a Universal fact.

Whether you call your goal, an ambition, a target or a milestone. It all means the same. You have an intention to make something happen.

But do we all achieve our goals ? If you are one of those few who do, then kudos to you. But for the remaining lot, lets empathize.

Lets backtrack from that feeling of remorse and sadness of not having achieved our goal yet. And dig into the roots.

First things first is having a Goal. Dont you feel excited and exhilirated just by the thought of this Goal. The smile across your face merged with the potential efforts required to make it happen. The more Challenging the goal, the more the Rush.

Man is a Needy-Greedy animal.  And its because we have an insatiable appetite for the material and non-material, we DESIRE more and more from life as we go on.

But why is it that these Exciting goals we desire , are not met. Why is it that we see the Finish Line, and yet are not able to cross it. What happens on the path to attainment?

Especially when in most cases we have a clear idea of what it takes to achieve our goals.

Well, whats missing in this Equation is the Variable called Consistency. Not to sound too mathematically correct, but a variable is an element, feature, or factor that is liable to vary or change.

In lay mans, it means that, when we start out to pursue our goal, somewhere down the road we lose focus or motivation. Result of which leads us to side-track. And before its too late our Desire turns into Doubt.

Next time you aim to make something happen, just MAKE IT HAPPEN, period.

A goal , like every race, has a start, a fixed track and a finish. If not run, walk, but stay on the track.

The Goal is Consistency !



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Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Confessions of a Heart

Part I

Emotions on the Edge

Taking The Plunge.

Breathless.

The Rush within.

Part II

Time flies.

Thoughts focussed.

Selflessness Surfaces.

Nothing Else Matters.

Heaven on Earth.

Part III

Differences.

Mixed Expressions.

Misunderstandings.

Deep Discussions.

Insecurities.

Part IV

Distance.

Letting Go.

Coldness.

Love-Hating.

Part V

Acceptance.

Forgiveness.

Moving On.

Looking Forward.

Seeking Love.... Again.


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Monday, January 3, 2011

A Lover's Perception



A Thing called Love. We all have it , We all express it & We all Love getting it. But do we all Think the same about it ? Take a moment to Ponder over the Thing called Love and what you feel about it.

Now I'll tell you my Perception. A Libran by Birth and as my Sun-sign states that we are, I quote, "The most proficient Lovers of all". And I proudly pat my back to that !

I truly believe, that when you find love in yourself first, you exude a personality that attracts Love. As it is said, "Like attracts Like". I rephrase, "Love attracts Love". Because If you cannot truly love yourself for who you are, how do you expect someone else to find love in you. Its a thought.

So take some time off alone and spend time with the person you SHOULD love the most. Yes, you know that person very well. Because I'm talking about YOU !. This might sound a little stupid and crazy to you at first, but it works. Take a Pen and Paper or a Notepad on your Computer and jot down the list of things you completely adore about yourself. Its a great Exercise to not only build confidence and self-esteem, but it also helps you shape your mindset and brings out the best in you, more effortlessly.

Be grateful, that there is only ONE YOU.

" Every new year people make resolutions to change aspects of themselves. ... I challenge you to just be yourself and more importantly, LOVE YOURSELF"

From the Lover in me to the Lover in you.

Happy New Year !


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